Sarah Jessica Parkeris finally speaking openly about her rift with formerSex and the CitycostarKim Cattrall, acknowledging that “it’s very hard to talk about the situation.”

“I’ve been so careful about not ever wanting to say anything that is unpleasant,” she toldThe Hollywood Reporter’sAwards Chatterpodcast, “because it’s not the way I like to conduct conversations that are as complicated as this, you know?”

At this stage, Parker is tired of repeatedly discussing the drama between the two former colleagues.

Parker continued, “So I just wish that they would stop calling this a ‘catfight’ or an ‘argument,’ because it doesn’t reflect, actually — there has been one person talking. And I’m not going to tell her not to, or anybody, so that’s been kind of painful for me also.”

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Sarah Jessica Parker and Kim Cattrall

Parker’s tension with Cattrall, 65, has gone on for quite some time, and Cattrall has publicly slammed Parker on several occasions.

In 2017, Cattrall bluntly stated that she had “never been friends” with any of her formerSATCcast mates — but she specifically called out Parker.

“This is really where I take to task the peoplefrom Sex and the City, and specifically Sarah Jessica Parker,” she toldPiers MorganonLife Stories, perDaily Mail. “I think she could’ve been nicer. I really think she could’ve been nicer. I don’t know what her issue is.”

Weighing in on the matter one year later, Parker insisted there’s “no catfight” between the pair.

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“I have never uttered an unkind, unsupportive, unfriendly word, so I would love to redefine it,” she previously toldVulture. “I also want to remind everybody that there were four women on the set and I spent equal time with all of them, so this was not a set with two women who didn’t get along.”

Parker added, “I’ve always held Kim’s work in high regard and always appreciative of her contributions. If she chooses not to do the third movie, there’s not a lot I can do to change her mind and we must respect it. That’s the only thing I’ve ever said about it, you know?”

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Kim Cattrall and Sarah Jessica Parker

HBO Max revivedSex and the Cityin 2021 asAnd Just Like That…. The new series saw the return of all the original leading ladies return except Cattrall, whose character Samantha Jones became estranged from the friend group.

Parker confirmed on theAwards Chatterpodcast that they “did not ask” Cattrall to return.

“She made it clear that that wasn’t something she wanted to pursue, and it no longer felt comfortable for us, and so it didn’t occur to us,” she said. “That’s not ‘slamming’ her, it’s just learning. You’ve got to listen to somebody, and if they’re publicly talking about something and it doesn’t suggest it’s some place they want to be, or a person they want to play, or an environment in which they want to be, you get to an age where you’re like, ‘Well, we hear that.'”

source: people.com